Tuesday, August 13, 2013

S O - R U D E

Rudeness, That's something we come across everyday, well almost everyday. It actually depends on how you perceive rudeness. If you find a simple gesture of licking your fingers in a restaurant rude, then there are alot of rude people around you, on the other hand if you don't mind such behavior and are not frazzled by these tiny acts of randomness then you most probably don't encounter that many rude people.
Maybe YOU'RE rude.... ever though of that?

Well you might call it being blunt or frank but some people see it as being rude so you gotta think about that too but according to me, Rude would be going out of your way to make pointless disrespectful remarks, which everyone is guilty of at some point. :/






Anyway, while you ponder on your sudden rudeness, Here are a few tips on how to handle rude people
, I'm not sure if they really help because I'm not very good with people, but it's worth a shot.

1) Try to understand the rude person's perspective. Is she your grandma who finds low waist pants disrespectful and rude? or a teenager who finds that correcting his or her grammar during a  conversation rude...

2)Be calm while talking to that person. Be firm but calm.

3)If you think the rudeness id because of a misunderstanding, try and resolve it CALMLY

4)For best results, just try avoiding that person, it could be just a phase.

5)Don't aggravate them more by talking about them behind their back, try limiting the people with whom you share your confrontations with

6)Don't over think. So you confronted this person and nothing has changed, you need to draw a line to accept that you've done as much as you possibly could to improve your relation with them.

One tip. Tit for Tat never works. NEVER
So don't be rude back at that person.

You know why? BECAUSE .......




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